Looking Good

What is this pressure that society puts on good looks? Why do we feel the need to look good? To make ourselves feel better, or so that people like us more? Why is it that women seem to care more about looks than men? Is this societal pressure to look good imposed only upon women? Well, I don't really agree.

I think we put the pressure on ourselves. And I think men and women both should feel the need to look good. By that, I don't mean get plastic surgery (that's just for people with self-esteem issues, bad scars, or bad make-up artists). Thing is, I believe, everyone should put in a little effort to look their best. Because, it shows you care. You're not just some sloppy student, who's up studying all night. You're clean, healthy, and have an idea as to what works for you.

While great beauty is genetic, and can't be helped, little things here and there can go a long way in making a person look great. And here are my top tips for always looking great:

• Get a good haircut

This is the most important factor if you want to look good all the time. Get a good haircut, and keep your hair nice and clean. You'll be surprised how good you're always looking. By good haircut, I mean those expensive ones, in the fancy salons. They are worth it. For the next 2-3 months, you'll be looking fabulous.

• Be well groomed

By that, I mean, wax, get your eyebrows done, get your facial hair removed, or bleached, etc. And if you haven't had the time to wax/shave, please, please, never wear clothes that'd show the unremoved hair.

• Get in shape

What's the best way to look sexy, if you're not beautiful? Get in shape. Wear sexy clothes, and very soon people will forget your face is not all that beautiful.

• Dress well

Get your own style. See what works for you, be it geek chic, classy lady, or tomboy cool. If it matches your personality, chances are you'd be able to carry it off well.

• Learn how to do your own makeup

This one requires a little practice, but try out different looks and see what suits you best- a natural, sun-kissed glow, a bronzed look, a pale, delicate look, or a dramatic look. Match looks for different occasions, don't be afraid to use colour, but always make sure it's not too over-the-top. 

• Accessorize

One of the most important things in completing a look is your accessories. Get a cute hair clip, a casual satchel, sky-high heels, or ballerina flats. Team them up with some cuffs, neckpieces,  earrings, and you've changed a mundane store-bought ensemble into a runway-worthy look. Mix and match accessories, but don't go overboard. For example- never wear earrings, bracelets, and necklaces, unless you're wearing a really simple dress. Too much going on everywhere.

• Shoes

Your shoes will make or break your look. Buy shoes from good brands, and make sure they're always clean and polished. Have a vast variety, so that sometimes pairing different shoes with an outfit can make it go from day-to-night wear.

• Remember the occasion, and the weather

Tank tops are not cool in winter, and neither are wedges. Likewise, layering is not really the ideal choice for a really hot day.